If we sit to analyze the different reasons of modern couples parting ways and breaking up we will probably find that hardcore sexual cheating is just another reason among many. Cheating is often believed to be synonymous with having sex out of a relationship or marriage. However, that is not the case.
Cheating is no more that simple. The advent of technology and gaps in communication has made cheating a more commonplace thing. We do not even realize when we are cheating our partner and denying them what they deserve. A major change in lifestyle and mindset are probably the hidden reasons behind such a change. Let’s find out.
What happened to romance and dating?
Have you ever sat across your soulmate or partner and felt lonely? While you were trying to draw their attention, they were busy with their phones. The new age chatting apps have connected people and made it possible to virtually share everything.
They have turned communicating with long lost friends and absolute strangers easy. People are so busy in showing off their communication skills virtually that they forget to communicate in real life with their soul-mate and life partners.
The old style of romancing is dying. People go for date but their goals remain taking selfies for social media. Pictures of foods, social media check-ins and day to day live update through blogging.
All these take up so much time that people fail to concentrate on their partner. If you are not giving the due respect, love and time to your partner then that’s cheating. May be sexually you remain faithful yet you let your mind stay occupied with unnecessary things.
Lack of communication skills
The virtual world is very misleading. People take it as a platform for putting their best foot forward. However, they do not seem to follow what they pretend to believe in. stop being obsessed about stalking your school friends or ex-boyfriend’s current flame.
Instead, you should complement your own lover. Plan a romantic date and follow through. When there is silence for a long time, it becomes difficult to break the ice. Take the bold step to change your life in real and let it reflect on the virtual. There is nothing wrong with blogging or posting pictures in social media sites but don’t let that fad come between you and your lover.
Different forms of cheating mar modern relationships. Lack of communication and inattentiveness are cheating of sorts that can ruin your relationship, so beware.